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  • I’m in love…….

    I think the most common thought a mommy has when she finds out she’s pregnant with #2 is “Will I really love the second one as much as my precious first born?”  I mean I knew I would love Piper, but sometimes I wondered how anymore love could fit into my already full heart! 

    Truth is….I think the heart just expands! Like that part in the Grinch when his heart grows so much it busts out of the frame!  From the moment I laid eyes on this sweetie, I knew I could find room. 

    A wise mommy told me that I will find that I will love each of my children differently because they are individuals.  I loved that!  Just as I am sure our Father loves each of us in our own unique way. 

    Life with two has been hectic at times. It’s hard to find a balance these days, but I know I will find it again….it just takes time.  At the same time, I sense the Lord is telling me to slow down and really enjoy these moments.  Looking at Andrew now I can’t believe he was ever as small as Piper was. Seems like just yesterday he was a tiny thing in my lap and now I can carry on a conversation with him.  Someone mentioned “school” the other day and I winced…..”Is it really time to think about that?”  I mean, how can that be?  On a walk the other day I found myself saying, “Andrew……hurry up….walk faster!” as I was getting impatient with the fact that he had to stop and look at every bug, rock and stick.  At that moment I realized that God made kids that way on purpose….not only to discover the world around them, but so that us adults would slow down enough to discover it with them!  Andrew’s also take up the idea of coloring on the walls (we’ve not had any episodes recently :) ).  When I posted this on face book a friend replied…..”Did you join him? Make sure you hug him everyday!”  My eyes teared up…..and the next time he colored on the wall and looked at me with those big blue eyes and said, “Uh oh…..oh no….that not nice. No color!” I smiled and enveloped him in a big hug…..he hasn’t done it since! 

    Over the past few weeks I’ve read blogs of those who have lost children or have had severe health issues causing them to go to great lengths to get medical treatment for their child.  I realized, I am blessed…….beyond measure.


    Go hug your babies and maybe even color on the walls with them! 

  • Adjusting….

    So I always get the question, “How is Andrew adjusting to having a little sister?” 

    The truth is….he’s doing great!  As you can tell by the photos he’s already taken on the protective role of big brother!  In fact I can hardly get a snapshot of Piper alone…..he has to be in them all! :)   Yes, there are times of jealousy but for the most part, he’s doing much better than I thought he would! 

    The real question is….how is Bubba adjusting!?!

    Note the look of……”Oh Lord, not ANOTHER one!!” on her face. 

    Yes….she’s not adjusting to life with two kiddos quite as well as I thought.  She spends most of her time chilling out on our front porch.  When she comes in Andrew torments her, so she tends to eat and run right back out again.  Poor Bubba!  She has tried to bond with Piper by sleeping in her pack and play…..of course, she got the boot. 

    Why do I say she’s not adjusting?  Well…..I found a turd (AKA Poopie, Poop) on the floor of Andrew’s room.  Actually my FOOT found the poopie and I might add that my foot was barefoot!  Yes, I stepped on a cat turd this morning!  Nice! 

    Thanks Bubba for planting that nice surprise for me…..you were definetly not “momma’s favorite” this morning.  I am pretty sure you left that for Andrew to discover and not me as you wouldn’t do that to your auntie Sarah.  However, I am glad I discovered it first as I am pretty sure Andrew would have taken the liberty of smearing it into the floor and walls and whatever else his two year old hands could get all over.  Ick! 

    So yes…..that’s how we’re adjusting.  Next post will be how well Kev and I are adjusting to life with two!!

    On a side note…..I am totally addicted to Prison Break. :)  

  • One month…..

    I feel like I’ve abandoned my blog!  The sad thing is I have hundreds of posts floating in my head, but no time to type them up!  Life with two kids keeps me on my toes and leaves me little time for myself these days.  The good news is, I know it won’t always be this way.  It’s only been a month and I think Kev and I are handling things quite well. 

    One month ago this little momma came into our lives……

    I love having a little girl.  Loads of pink, polka dots, and ruffles…..I love it!  I can’t wait for the princess parties!!!! 

    Andrew has totally taken on his role as the big brother……

    He loves to hold his sister and is so good with her.  Occasionally the green eyed jealousy monster comes out, but for the most part, he’s doing very well. 

    And Piper…..well she’s already entertained by her big brother.  I think these two will be buds! 

  • Happy Jesus has Risen Day!

    So Easter really snuck up on me this year! Holiday’s in Africa sorta do that to you……I guess there is no Hallmark or Wal-Mart to remind you months in advance that something is on the way. With Piper’s birth and then wrapping up our internship for Jan-April I barely realized it was Easter!  When I went out on Friday to try to find some Easter candy for Andrew’s basket…..I couldn’t find any……not that there was much out there to begin with.  Then I realized, it’s not about an Easter Basket…..it’s about Him.  I chucked the Easter basket idea and decided that this year the Easter Bunny, Basket, and Easter clothes could just pass on by.  Even so we didn’t go to church because culturally, I can’t take Piper out for a few more weeks and even though Kev could go he was to sleep deprived to manage Andrew alone…….so yeah, I guess that’s another post…..sleep deprivation and two kids. :)  

    None the less…..it is about Him……He has Risen, He has Risen Indeed!

     
    LBOM tradition…..Easter Egg hunt!  I love it….it’s the one thing we always do every Easter!!!


    Getting ready to hunt


    Andrew found his eggs on his own this year! 


    Momma’s little bunny……next year she’ll hunt!


    Aaaa-chooo!   Must be daddy’s bougenvilla that made him sneeze!


    Proud Auntie Semakelang!  Isn’t she beautiful!  This is her 5th Easter with us……did I mention she’s my neighbor now, and no longer living in Francistown!!!???? She’s with us all the time now in her forever home across the path!


    Still hunting……


    I found an Egg for Piper!


    Counting our eggs! He found 13!!!


    Counting my blessings……there are many!!! 

  • Good-byes…..

    So we said good bye to Camilla our January intern today.  As we were walking back to the house I said to Kev….”Is it always gonna be this hard to say goodbye to interns every three months?”  We’ve had two great groups of interns so far and it’s always hard to say goodbye.  Camilla was our only January intern and it actually worked out perfect.  She became a part of our family for the past three months and we will miss her dearly.  She worked hard and served with her whole heart.  Did I mention she comes from London and has the sweetest accent!? :)  

    She was a proud Auntie to Piper! :)

    A good friend to “Semeena” as Andrew calls her…..

    And she always was willing to share a cup of coffee with me…….sweet moments!

    We’ll miss you Mills and love you!!!!!

    ***And just for fun…..here’s a picture of our family of four!***

    I have loads of posts and pictures floating around in my head……just need to get the time to sit and write! :)  

  • Home!

    Sorry for my lack of updates, but I just got re-connected to the internet today at the Mission.  We arrived back in Maun on Saturday evening and I must say, it’s so good to be home.  Even Andrew got excited when he saw his toys and room……he missed home as much as we did and was even saying, “Home!” while we were in Gabs. 

    Backing up a bit, we left for Gabs on March 15th.  The first two hours of the drive I had pretty consistent contractions and I really thought we would have to turn around and come back home.  Thankfully they stopped when we got out at a check point and the rest of the trip was uneventful.  The weather was over cast and raining which helped keep the temps down.  Serena entertained Andrew in the backseat and he did great.

    We managed to see a few movies and run a lot of errands the first few days in Gabs. We tried to get Andrew out every day as the place we were staying was very small and we knew he would go nuts! :)   On Friday evening we had dinner with some friends of ours and even made plans to get together the following week as we figured we would be in Gabs for the long haul. 

    On Saturday morning I woke up at 7am and shot out of bed as I felt a pop…..I didn’t know if it was my water breaking or not so I ran to the toilet.  Sure enough it was but I wasn’t having any contractions.  Within 15 min the contractions started in and they were coming fast.  By 8am I knew we needed to head to the hospital and then my water really broke…..all over the floor!  Serena and I just looked at each other and I started to laugh.  (Andrew was still sleeping through all of this.)  I just remember thinking, “Great, NOW what am I going to wear to the hospital.” (we were going to do laundry that day too).  When we arrived at the hospital at 8:30am I was dilated to 7cm and things began to move quickly.  The on call Dr, Dr. Music came in and said that this was going to be quick and told the nurses to call when I was ready to push.  By 9:15am I was ready and by 9:48am, Piper Grace came into the world!  All told, my labor was under three hours, but HARD core!  I remember just feeling such relief when she was out of me and seeing her little face.  She did have a knot in her cord……we’ll never know how or when it happened, but praise the Lord she was totally fine. Kev followed her into the nursery and I laid in recovery for an hour or so before they moved me to my  room. I couldn’t believe how fast things went and also that she was actually born on her due date and my mom’s birthday!!  The nurses were so impressed at how I handled everything and I was able to birth Piper completely natural just like I wanted. 

    Saturday afternoon Andrew arrived to meet his little sis and was totally smitten with her.  He kept pointing and saying, “baby!!”  He was only able to stay for a bit as they didn’t allow children on the ward, but I wanted him to see her.  On Sunday afternoon I was discharged and able to come home and rest.  The rest of the week was busy with handling paperwork and passports along with getting both Piper and I checked out by our doctors and cleared for travel home. Piper was a bit jaundice at birth so we wanted to make sure that she was okay before we traveled back.  The whole process went so smooth and we were in Gabs just two weeks!!  I can’t believe the amount of grace and favor that the Lord put on this trip……it was truly an answer to prayer!  It’s so good to be back home though and in our own beds!!! 

    Piper is truly a little treasure and such a good baby.  We’ve been so blessed with good babies and so far she’s rivaling Andrew.  She sleeps and eats like a champ and is just so peaceful.  She sure does know my voice because if anyone is holding her and I talk she starts looking around for me.  Andrew is also doing very well and adjusting to life with a sister pretty well.  At moments it’s been hard to juggle both kiddos, but I know that each day we’ll get better at it.  I am feeling GREAT and have managed to loose all my pregnancy weight and get into all normal clothes again! It feels so good to feel good again as much of this pregnancy was really hard on me physically.  I really have to pace myself a bit though as I can easily over due it because I feel so good and want to do it all.  I am even able to pick up Andrew and run and play with him again……feels so good! 

    So….without further ado….here are some photos!  She changes every day so even these aren’t as “current”. :)   I’m feeling more inspired to write so hopefully I will be posting more blogs and pictures soon if I can manage with two kiddos! :)  

    We took Andrew to Senita’s a tea garden in Gabs that has a great jungle gym and this tractor which he loved! 


    Going down the BIG slide.  He didn’t want the small ones….it was the big one!


    The first few days Andrew just liked to look at Piper while she slept.  Here he is saying, “Bay-beee”


    Piper’s first little smile.


    Andrew giving kisses……I swear he looks SO big next to her. :)  


    Cheese!!  (That’s an owie on Andrew’s face. :) )


    Andrew has a hard time saying Piper……it comes out “Diaper”. :)  


    And me with my two treasures………let the fun begin! :)

  • Introducing……

    Piper Grace Witt
    Born March 21st at 9:48am
    3.8kgs (8lbs) 

    Miss Piper shares a birthday with my mom which I think is the coolest thing.  You see for months I had been praying that she would come on my mom’s birthday.  It’s funny how the Lord sees those little things in our hearts.  My labor and delivery was just under 3 hours and totally natural. I forgot and remembered how quickly labor HURTS!  I do however feel so much better now that she’s outside of me and that I can actually do things without a big belly in the way.  I’m at my “home away from home” in Gabs and we’re doing well. 

    Andrew is totally smitten with Piper (or Diaper as he calls her) and is very helpful.  I am sure the novelty will wear off soon, but for now he definitly knows that she is his sister. 

    So now the fun begins……two kids!!! 

    I will try to post more later, but wanted to let everyone know that she’s here! :)

  • Waiting…….

    Just wanted everyone to know that we’ve made it safe to Gaborone and now we’ll be waiting for baby girl to make her appearance. 

    I do not know how much internet access I will have, but will try to post as much as possible. 

    Thanks for everyone who prayed for safe travel.  It was a bit crazy the first two hours as I had contractions consitantly in the car, but Praise God they stopped and we were able to keep going.  The temp was great and was overcast so that made it comfortable in the car too!  Andrew was great and Serena did wonderful at providing him a full service entertainment service of “shows”, “juice” and “Pooh”.  :)  

    We’re enjoying our time in Gabs, but praying that baby girl comes soon so we can be back home.  Till then….we’ll enjoy some movies and hopefully get a good haircut and color before she comes! :)  

  • I’ve not had a lot to say the past few weeks……being quiet is sometimes sorta nice.  It’s not really too nice on my email inbox though that keeps getting fuller and fuller.  I really do need to tackle that!  It’s not really good for my coaching training either as I don’t think I’ve touched my manual in a bit.  I need to tackle that too!  So yeah, lots to do before a baby comes and well…….I don’t really have a whole lot of motivation to do anything but sit back, enjoy my last moments of it being just Andrew, Kevin and I and wait for #2 to join us any day.  Do I feel bad about that…..not one bit.  Because I know that I won’t have those moments back……ever. 

    There’s always work to be done that can wait another day, but moments with family are passing. 

    The past few days I’ve observed………
    Andrew loves Madagascar 2.  He likes to dance to the songs.

    Andrew’s vocabulary is exploading with new words daily.  Sometimes it’s his own verson, but it’s making life so much easier since we can communicate better.

    Andrew still likes to sit on my lap, even though I really don’t have much of a lap left these days and his sister likes to kick him in the back.  It might be just for a moment, but it reminds me that he still likes cuddling with mommy. 

    Andrew is a mini verson of Kevin…….okay, we’ve all known this, but there are mannerisims that are coming out that are uncanny.  It’s amazing to look at a little person and see a reflection…….God is so good…..and creative! 

    Andrew loves to color…….by evidence of the previous posts, but he truely loves to color!!  He’ll now let us color a bit with him, but if he wants his “toe-wer” back….you better give it up quick!

    Andrew hates to go to bed………we’re STILL battling this.  I live for the day when he goes willingly…..till then we fordge on! 

    Andrew is motivated best by the “Spoonge”…..AKA, the Spanking Spoon.  I have no idea what it is about this spoon, but when asked to do something like pick up a toy or something that he knows he’s done wrong….he will say, “Spoonge?” and then point to where it’s kept.  As soon as you go get it, he obeys!  Though tonight he picked up all his trucks and put them away with out the spoon!!! :)   (It’s the little things!) 

    So, what have you taken time to notice about your kiddos this week?  At this age they change so quickly…….I don’t think I want to miss a moment.  The emails and the other stuff can wait!

  • Feet…..what feet?

    So it’s official……

    I can’t see my feet!  Not that it’s  a bad thing since they are starting to swell and look all crazy anyway, but with Andrew, I at least always saw my toes! :)  

    Here I am at 37 weeks (38 weeks if you ask my doc and midwife)…….

    (I wear a lot of black I guess……..)

    Reaching the end……puffy face and all! 

    I am hoping I can at least put some highlights in my hair before baby girl comes………. ish, I need it! :)